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HEY THERE! I'M ASPEN.

Even as the family scapegoat, it's still possible to...

 

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YOU'VE spent your life SURVIVING as the Family Scapegoat.

Find out which childhood wound taught you that in order to be loved & stay safe, you had to EARN IT.

 

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Aspen

SOMATIC (SEP) & TRAUMA INFORMED COACH

I ended up in this work because I needed it. 

In 2009 my son was born pre-mature & between his health issues and my own, I was not ok. It led to years of panic attacks & no idea how to deal with the trauma.

Once I began healing from that, I found that all my childhood coping mechanisms started bubbling up... and that was where the real healing began.

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All the questions I ask during sessions sent straight to your inbox in a digital journal & workbook! Discover why your wounds are still impacting you, how your body in particular goes into survival mode & tools for getting out of it.

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Picking a coach is not always easy, especially if you've spent your whole life feeling misunderstood. I get that.

More importantly, I get this work.

I understand how heavy it is to live in a constant state of survival, the weight of feeling responsible for everything, and no matter how hard you try... you just can't get out of it.

You don't need another person telling you to "just set boundaries" or "let it go." You need someone who understands what it means to grow up in a dysfunctional family, how survival mode shapes every part of your life, and how to help you create change that actually lasts.

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10 (hidden) Toxic Family Rules still running your adult life.

They may have helped you in the past, but they won't help you build the life you want now & they will keep you exhausted!