Are You Afraid to Have More Money in Your Life?

Are you feeling super frustrated because you've tried and tried to manifest more money in your life but can't seem to make it happen?

Or, maybe you know you aren't earning enough but don't feel like you deserve more...even though you really want more?

Each of has a particular amount of Money that we are actually comfortable having. A kind of ceiling that we place on how much money feels safe, attainable and that we feel worthy of.... it's called our Upper Limit. 

This Upper Limit is formed by your family beliefs, your childhood, your community and of course your limiting beliefs. So as you go about trying to manifest more Money into your life, this limit comes into play. There may be times when you shoot above this limit but inevitably something will always bring you back down into this safety zone that your subconscious has created. 

For example, have you earned or had a big chunk of money come into your life that was more than you normally have and all of the sudden you have a bill pop up,  you decide to go on that vacation or help out a family member out and before you know it you are back down to your normal bank account balance? That's because you exceeded the amount of Abundance that felt comfortable for you to have and you unknowingly had to create a situation to get you back into your comfort zone.

These actions are such acts of self sabotage. They happen before you realize it and most of the times are so quick that you don't even realize you are doing it. Fortunately though, the patterns can be easy to catch and there are a few steps you can take to get clear on what your pattern is so that you can PAUSE next time instead of falling back into the old habits.

First, notice how much Money is your Normal Amount

How much money do you typically have? Or maybe there is an amount that you are even short each month. This is the level of Abundance that you are currently comfortable of having and feel worthy of. Sometimes this can feel disheartening but just know, if your amount is low or not enough for you to meet your basic needs, ITS OK. This is just a reflection of your beliefs and not your true value. You are worth way more than any struggle you might be going through right now!

Second, notice what normally happens when you get extra Money

Do you have a bill pop up? Do you blow it on something? Or do you spend on catching up on bills? 

How you spend that extra Abundance is important. If you are spending it on things you can't control like extra bills and emergencies then it lets you know how worthy or capable you feel about receiving extra money. Do you feel like you have no control? Or that you are always behind? How you feel is YOUR PATTERN. This is what is blocking you from being able to hold onto the Money when it comes in. 

In order to call in more Abundance you have be an energetic container that is capable of holding it. That means you have to feel in charge of your Money. 

Practice being in charge by placing any extra funds in your Savings or out of sight. This helps you practice letting go of that energy of Scarcity and Lack of Control.

When you take that Abundance or even a portion of your pay each week and set it aside, you are confirming to your subconscious that you have an abundance and you help practice the ART (yes it's an art!) of HOLDING ONTO MONEY. Even if you already have more than you need, practice setting aside larger amounts of Money to show the Universe that you are CAPABLE of holding onto it.

One More Practice...

When you are working towards raising your Upper Limit so that you can consistently call in more Abundance, it's helpful to ask the Universe for opportunities to practice managing larger dollar amounts. Simply by asking, you allow the Universe to bring opportunities to you. 

Yes, they might trigger old beliefs or feelings of fear or maybe even shame but they are all chances for you to release those old Upper Limits and stories around lack so that you are capable and comfortable of calling in more in your life. 

xxx

Aspen

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